Planning a wedding is stressful. No News there. 6 months to put together the happiest day of my life. (While trying to also remain happy during said 6 months.)
The flowers, the dress, the location, the ceremony, the guests. I could go on forever but, you get the point.
So this is me documenting it. There are plenty of people probably doing the same thing but here is my journey.
So at this point Chris and I aren’t actually engaged yet. Like we have agreed that we are going to get married and we have a tentative date, my ring finger is just still vacant. (Early on in the relationship I told him exactly where I wanted to be proposed to at and we aren’t going there until spring break.)
However here are the things that we have figured out:
- Colors- Maroon and Charcoal grey
2. Reception Venue- His parents backyard
3. Registry- Okay so this one isn’t done but we have a solid start on it so…
4. Date – Nothing is actually set in stone and I don’t want to spoil it
5. Temple we want to get married in- Meridian, Idaho
6. The ring
Maybe some of these things will change but for now it is nice to feel like I’m getting some things figured out.
So far it is stressful to say the least, with jobs and school and traveling I am definitely afraid something important will fall through the cracks. I can see why people hire a planner but I am determined to do this the old-fashioned way. My mom and I hashing out details over a table full of ads from magazines and my Pinterest board that I started like 3 years ago.
As far as some of the other bigger details like the dress, photographer, the food, and literally everything else. Here are my current thoughts:
Dress: I want to wear my mom’s dress. My grandma will make it a little less 90’s and also the right size.
Photographer: Both Chris and I have friends that are photographers that would be totally capable and I would trust them with our engagement and wedding photos. My dad is also a really good photographer who I would also trust with them so I guess with three photographers someone is bound to get a picture of both of us smiling at the same time.
Food: This is a problem for future Kate.
So yeah, thats my thoughts for now. I have merely begun to plan my wedding and while it is stressful, it is also exciting to be planning the day that I have been planning for since I was little with my favorite person in the world by my side.
(P.S. Chris is helping me I promise, he just knows that I am a high-stress control freak so he just lets me do my thing and steps in exactly when I need him.)